Showing posts with label Theory of Mind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Theory of Mind. Show all posts

Tuesday, 29 October 2013

She understands... or does she..??

Lotte is doing well. Most important, her teacher knows how to "see" Lotte. We're lucky to have her. Lots of progress. She's a little fighter..
Its difficult for outsiders to really "see" the child that has trouble hearing, because these children are masters in faking they understand the message. 
It's one of the things we have been focusing on a lot.. We tell her teachers, trainers.. "Do not think Lotte understands what you are saying. Not even when she says she does."'
We tell them to ask control questions....

Lotte does understand more and more but at the same time she's hiding some of the things she does not understand. When confronted with that, she will do a step back, smile and say "Oh yeh, I dont understand..". But not before..

It's understandable.. Lotte doesn't want to say every time she doesn't understand, and the teachers, friends, and at times us - parents - rather go on with the conversation than check if she did or did not understand.
Sometimes it doesn't harm to move on... sometimes it's important to verify that the message has gone through..

At the "Lotte-Parent-teacher" meeting the teacher told Lotte that if she doesn't understand, she needs to ask her. And if Lotte still doesn't understand, she should ask again.. It's up to her - Lotte's teacher - to make sure Lotte understands... 
Then I told Lotte that it is always OK to ask. In fact, not asking is the first mistake, and just writing down an answer without understanding the question is the second mistake..
Lotte hates making mistakes, so I hope this will be a motivating way of thinking....

Last week she had a math problem with a question like "What tracks does John have to run in order to run 6 km.?" which Lotte answered with "He has to train a lot.."
When we just point at he answer she is very quick to erase the answer... She realises it's wrong, or better said... she guessed wrong. Rather than thinking & asking when she does the exercise she just writes down the first that comes to mind.. 
Her reasoning is probably: If every question has an answer.. homework is finished...

At the end some tears due "trouble" with friends. Some frustration with friend teasing her.
She explained very well how she prefers to play 1 on 1. When there are more she see the other girls whispering and (often rightly probably) thinks its about her.
Then again.. with girls there's a lot of mental stuff going on... difficult for Lotte..
But she also shows wonderful compassion. How she includes other children when she sees someone is by him/her-self. And how she understands that you should not refuse children to play with you if they ask.. and that this is not valid just at school, but also outside school...

Again...
she's doing well... eager to learn, tell & ask in the classroom, eager to learn outside the classroom as well...

Finally a picture of Lotte in her element.. Watching/listening to movies on the iPad with her favorite friend...






Wednesday, 18 February 2009

Drawings and numbers..

Parents will identify with this...
It looks as if nothing happens, and suddenly you notice the change. Actually, you don't notice the change. You remember suddenly that something is completely changed since a while ago.
When it happened, how..... you have no clue when it happened, but it's there..

We noticed it with drawings. Suddenly the pictures she made had changed. She even started copying drawings. She chose a DVD of "Mamma Mia" and started drawing the arch and the person underneath it. Amazing. New!!
But other pictures have evolved as well. More structure, copying, or redrawing the same figures.

And numbers are the thing now. She knows them, counts happily to 100, and at school they are counting money. Adding a bit, changing 10 into smaller pieces like 5's and 1's.
Then then we thought to make her remember our telephone number. 8 digits...
Actually, the cellphone of Mouse. Estimated time to make her remember, 3 days....
So, we wrote down the number.... she dialled.. well, pressed the keys, and "bliss" the mobile phone rang.. Magic.
DId it again.. Fun game. And another time.. Lotte liked
Actual time to remember it... 5 minutes.... She's good!! All this was before she went to school.... She still remembered it when she came home from school.. Photografic memory?
Next day the home number was established... We'll leave it at that for now..

All in all it demonstrates again the importance of Lotte going to school. Even though she is still behind in some social things, the learning at school is helping her with catching up.

Saturday, 10 January 2009

Just joking around...

Driving around, groceries... and Lotte is joining us..

She loves to go to the store...
On the way to the store she got a chewing-gum.... It's a treat as the kids hardly get one.... Only on long journeys... and when they are lucky, like today. At the end of the trip the chewing-gum is thrown away.... Part of the deal. No smacking, no swallowing and out of your mouth when we get out of the car. (We don't like to see them go around looking like goldfish on dry land... I know, we're terrible parents.... poor kids..)

Anyway, on the way back, Lotte quickly requested a chewing gum, and again she was lucky.... and happily started chewing..
While driving we told her a couple of times to close her mouth while chewing.... and suddenly.. she said.... 
"I swallowed it"... 
That's a real no-no... and we started explain to her that if she swollows it, she will get a tummy-ache, and she will not get any more chewing-gum.....
It didn't make an impression on her.... No panic reaction due to the vision of never having chewing gum again.... she just took the warning without problems.... No panic whatsoever.... something was not right....

.....and then she smiled and showed us the gum.... In her mouth the whole time...
Laughing out loud because she got us!!

A great joke, perfectly planned and peformed.... 
... something she would not have been able to do 6 months ago. She's growing up fast... 

Tuesday, 7 August 2007

Theory of Mind

Theory of mind is one of the things that is getting more and more attention with us.
Lotte does not have it yet. She would be on the phone and assumes the person on the other side can see what she sees. Or yesterday, she was in another room, actually, 1 floor up, and had to look for a yellow box. She kept asking "is it this one", "this one", assuming that we can see what she sees.

I found an article on Theory of Mind with a good explanation that I want to post here as well...

Note... I moved it to another post... click HERE.

Friday, 1 November 2002

Theory of Mind: Language and Cognition in Deaf Children

Theory of Mind: Language and Cognition in Deaf Children


by Brenda Schick, Jill de Villiers, Peter de Villiers, and Bob Hoffmeister


What does it mean to say that a child has a Theory of Mind?

As young children mature, they develop an understanding of themselves and other people as psychological beings who think, know, want, feel, and believe. They come to understand that what they think or believe may be different from what another person thinks and believes. They also learn that much of our behavior is motivated or caused by our knowledge and beliefs.

Simon’s Cake
An understanding of Theory of Mind might be best illustrated by an example, using a story.
Simon and his father made a cake together. But Simon wanted to go play and eat the cake later. So he put the cake in the cupboard. Then Simon left to play. The father thought that the icing on the cake might melt in the cupboard so he moved it to the refrigerator. Then the father left to go shopping. Later, Simon came home and he wanted to eat his cake. Where will Simon look for the cake?
You probably responded that Simon would look for the cake in the cupboard. He had put it there, and he didn’t know that his father had moved it. Your answer shows that you have a Theory of Mind. You can distinguish between what you know and the false belief, or misunderstanding, that Simon has.
Children around age 3, however, will answer this question incorrectly. They typically respond that the boy will look for the cake in the refrigerator, because that is where it is. At this age, children have difficulty distinguishing what they know from what others know. Children at this age are aware that people have thoughts, but they don’t realize that sometimes people’s thoughts and beliefs can be different from their own.

Major changes happen in the child’s understanding of other people’s minds around age 4. At this age, children can distinguish what they know from what others know, and they can correctly predict that a person’s behavior is dependent on what he thinks or knows, even when that belief is false. At about 4 years of age, a child can correctly predict that Simon would look in the cupboard, because that is where he left the cake.

Developmental psychologists call this a Theory of Mind because it shows that these children have an integrated set of concepts underlying their understanding of the mind. This is much the same as children’s "theories" in areas such as physics and biology. Children’s cognitive systems are not merely a collection of facts they have learned about the world. Rather, children develop an understanding that allows them to predict another person’s behavior based on what they know about that person’s thoughts and beliefs—just like you predicted that the boy would look for his cake in the cupboard. Like a scientific theory, a Theory of Mind allows us to interpret and predict other people’s actions by considering their thoughts, beliefs, desires, and emotions.

Theory of Mind and Deaf Children
Research has shown that children who are deaf have significant delay s in their understanding of a Theory of Mind. Previous investigators have speculated that the lack of access to conversations in the environment causes deaf children to miss important information about the world. But deaf children have some access to conversations, and, for the most part, they are socially competent, even when their language delays are severe. They do acquire a great deal of information about the world through visual means.

In addition, much of the research conducted on Theory of Mind skills in deaf children have relied solely on verbal tasks to assess their understanding. It is quite possible that deaf children have a Theory of Mind but don’t have sufficient language to understand the stories that are typically used to test them.

For very different reasons, children who have autism also have delays in developing a Theory of Mind. For the deaf child, the delay in acquiring a Theory of Mind is caused by lack of access to language, not by any fundamental cognitive problems. With the child with autism, the delays are a fundamental part of the disability, caused by cognitive differences in the child.

How Do Language Skills Relate to a Theory of Mind?
A recent investigation of Theory of Mind skills in children who are deaf (Language and Theory of Mind, funded by NIDCD to de Villiers, de Villiers, Schick, and Hoffmeister) attempted to determine whether deaf children were equally delayed in tasks that used language and those that didn’t. It also explored what aspects of the children’s development might be related to their understanding of the mind. The study included 176 children with a profound hearing loss representing three groups: 86 children being educated orally (53 with hearing aids, 33 with cochlear implants), 41 deaf children with hearing families learning American Sign Language (ASL), and 48 deaf children with deaf families exposed to ASL from birth. Unlike most previous studies, all children using ASL were tested by deaf adults who were native signers of ASL, and interpreters were not used.

Not surprisingly, the deaf children with deaf parents performed much like hearing children, while the children with hearing parents were significantly delayed in their understanding of a Theory of Mind. The results also show that the deaf children who were delayed in Theory of Mind were equally delayed in both the verbal tasks and the tasks that required minimal language. This means that the children lack some fundamental understanding of how the mind works regardless of whether the task requires language to understand it.

The study also revealed that the language skills in the deaf children were directly related to their Theory of Mind skills. However, it wasn’t the children’s general language skills but rather vocabulary skills and the specific ability to comprehend syntactic complements that predicted Theory of Mind skills. That is, if a child can understand sentences such as, "He thought his cake was in the cupboard," he is more likely to understand and predict behavior premised on a false belief, like that of the boy in the story. Children who had more advanced language skills were far more likely to pass the Theory of Mind tasks.

What this means is that the language delays that are typically observed in children who are deaf are causally related to delays in major aspects of cognitive development. Children who are not able to understand complex syntactic forms like complements have difficulty understanding how their own thoughts and beliefs may differ from those around them.

How Might Delays in Theory of Mind Development Affect Other Areas of Development?
There are several domains of development where Theory of Mind skills may be a prerequisite
or foundation for later development. First, it is very likely that Theory of Mind skills play a central role in children’ s understanding and production of narratives. Bruner distinguishes between the "landscape of action" and the "landscape of consciousness," both essential to narration. The fact that many deaf children appear to be delayed in their development of Theory of Mind skills may contribute to impoverished understanding of stories and so to their widely reported delays in reading skills. While many deaf children have difficulties with English grammar and vocabulary, these problems may not be the only cause of reading delays.

Research shows that even preschool storybooks have a great deal of content related to desires and beliefs of the characters. For example, Little Red Riding Hood has a false belief in that she thinks the wolf is her grandmother, but as readers, we know that the wolf is deceiving her and intends to eat her too. In order to appreciate the story, and its landscape of consciousness, a child must be able to see beyond the action and understand that Little Red Riding Hood doesn’t know what we know. Otherwise the story becomes a tale of action where Little Red Riding Hood takes food to her grandmother, but for some unexplainable reason, a wolf is there instead. Much of the sense of the story is lost.

Second, it is possible that Theory of Mind skills are important for the development of social interaction skills, particularly those skills required in schools. Astington and Pelletier argue that there may be a relation between children’s level of Theory of Mind development and their ability to learn by instruction and collaboration. They suggest that Theory of Mind understanding is also linked to the development of scientific thinking and critical thinking.
In short, education requires children to talk about mutual understandings and misunderstandings, to reflect on their own beliefs as well as others, and to shift perspectives when evidence suggests that another point of view is valid. All of these require Theory of Mind skills.

How Can We Help Children to Learn Theory of Mind Skills?
There are many ways that adults can likely facilitate a child’s acquisition of a Theory of Mind. Pretend play and role-playing allow children to escape from the reality of objects and roles. In order to do this, children may need to create separate cognitive representations for what is real and what is imaginary. Talking about past events also has been found to be related to Theory of Mind skills in children, probably because children need to discuss decontextualized events. As mentioned, even preschool books contain numerous references and opportunities to explore how the mind works. And life itself presents many situations where people forget where they put something, misunderstand and tease each other, imagine what could be, and discuss opinions and perspectives. Discussing these events with children will help them acquire both the language of the mind as well as concepts that underlie a mature Theory of Mind.

Finally, research on the development of Theory of Mind skills with children who have limited access to language shows us the powerful role language has in developing fundamental social and cognitive skills. While many professionals are quite aware of how important language is in our lives for communication and learning world knowledge, research on Theory of Mind shows that language provides the scaffolding to understand how minds work.
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Brenda Schick is an associate professor of speech, language, and hearing sciences at the University of Colorado at Boulder. She studies the development of ASL and the relationship between language and cognitive development in deaf children. Contact her by e-mail at Brenda.Schick@colorado.edu .

Jill de Villiers is Sophia and Austin Smith Professor of Psychology and Philosophy at Smith College. She is currently studying the impact of language acquisition on cognitive development as well as the development of new diagnostic tests for language assessment with particular reference to African American English. Contact her by e-mail at jdevil@science.smith.edu .

Peter de Villiers is Sophia and Austin Smith Professor of Psychology at Smith College. He is currently studying the interactions between language acquisition, cognitive development, and literacy in deaf children and pragmatics assessment. Contact him by e-mail at
PDEVILLI@science.smith.edu .

Robert Hoffmeister is the director of the Programs in Deaf Studies and the Center for the Study of Communication and the Deaf at Boston University. He is currently studying the relationship between learning, language development (ASL and English), and literacy in deaf children and the assessment of language in deaf children. Contact him by e-mail at
rhoff@ACS.BU.EDU .
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References
Astington, J. W. (1993). The child’s discovery of the mind. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.
Astington, J., & Pelletier, J. (1996). The language of the mind: Its role in teaching and learning. In D. R. Olson & N. Torrance (Eds.), The handbook of education and human development: New models of learning, teaching, and schooling (pp. 593–619). Cambridge, MA: Blackwell Publishers Ltd.
Bruner, J. (1990). Acts of meaning. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.
Bruner, J. (1999). The intentionality of referring. In P. D. Zelazo, J. W. Astington, & D. R. Olson (Eds.), Developing theories of intention (pp. 329–340). Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.
de Villiers, J. G., & de Villiers, P. (2000). Linguistic determinism and the understanding of false beliefs. In P. Mitchell & K. Riggs (Eds.), Children’s reasoning and the mind (pp. 189–226). Hove, UK: Psychology Press.
de Villiers, P., de Villiers, J., Schick, B., & Hoffmeister, R. (2000). Theory of mind development in signing and non-signing Deaf children: The impact of sign language on social-cognition. Paper presented at the Seventh International Conference on Theoretical Issues in Sign Language Research, Amsterdam, The Netherlands.
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Schick, B., de Villiers, P., de Villiers, J., & Hoffmeister, R. (2001). Language, literacy, and Theory of Mind in deaf children: What we know and what it means. Presented at the annual meeting of the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, New Orleans, LA.
Schick, B., Hoffmeister, R., de Villiers, P., & de Villiers, J. (2000). American Sign Language and Theory of Mind in Deaf children with Deaf or hearing parents. Paper presented at the Seventh International Conference on Theoretical Issues in Sign Language Research, Amsterdam, The Netherlands.

(Some) Milestones

  • 2013-08: Grade 6
  • 2012-08: Grade 5
  • 2011-08: Grade 4
  • 2011-03: BTE's on the ear
  • 2010-08: Grade 3
  • 2009-08: Grade 2
  • 2008-08: Mainstream School (6y. old)
  • 2006-10: All-hearing Kindergarten (4y. old)
  • 2004-11-22: CI activated (27 m. old)
  • 2004-10-04: Bi-lateral CI (26 m. old)
  • 2003-08: Deaf/HOH/CI Pre-school/"DEAF" Kindergarten (12m. old)
  • 2003-07: HA's fitted (11 m. old)
  • 2003-06: Diagnosed deaf. Start sign-language (10m. old)
  • 2002-11: Suspicion loss of hearing (4 m. old)
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