Lotte.. Signing & speaking.. 2005. 12 months hearing.
04:12 "Er is geen speld tussen te krijgen." - "Zeg eens "Monoloog"
Newsflash... 2015-04.. Lotte will start writing her own blog.!! On http://Lotte-deaf girl.blogspot.com So.. All you kids out there... Start reading, wondering and start asking questions to her... It's now a blog for parents, children and teenagers...
During the evening meal, Lotte showed us her English skills....
Couldn't let that moment pass and taped it.. (btw.. how do you tape it with a mobile phone..)
As a proud dad.. wanting to show off her skills, I asked her to do it in Dutch & Norwegian as well..
It's great to see how she mentally has to switch to another language. Her English is new of course. Also the way the melody changes between Dutch and Norwegian is great.... She's got an ear for languages... just like her mother....
A few days ago, while sitting at the kitchen table after school, Lotte put up a grave face and began to tell, "Mummy, today at school we learned about [......]". We could'nt understand the last word. Asked her to repeat it. "We learned about [.......] in the park behind our house. You have to stay on the path. If the children do not stay on the path and go walking in the woods, they can get killed".
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Bombs. The [...] word was 'bombs'. This is one of those moments where as a parent you have to think FAST. Luckily, having read the newspaper the day before, we remembered suddenly that there was going to be huge campaign in Norway for land mine victims in Cambodia a few days later. We were able to explain to Lotte that this was in a different country, that there was no need for her to be afraid. At first she didn't believe us, because this was told at school! The ultimate truth...... But after a bit of persuasiveness it seemed like the best option to believe us. We also took contact with the teacher and explained what had happened.
This is a perpect example of how Lotte gives meaning to the parts and pieces of spoken language which she is able to pick up. It is like this giant puzzle with holes in it, where she needs to fill in the gaps in order for her to give meaning to the story. Needless to say, this is not always on par with reality. Even though we know this, we let ourselves get fooled again and again, because Lotte is excellent at hiding that she has not understood. No matter how well Lotte is doing, stories like these are essential to make us understand that we have to stay aware of this, and pay attention.
Imagine what this idea about bombs in our neighborhood could have meant for Lotte, if it had been allowed to develop in her head over time. Ever so glad she is the gabby, talkative type and wears her heart on her sleeve!!
Yesterday a great moment..
Lotte needed to finish some homework; writing down 30 (Norwegian) words that they have been using the last 3 weeks. We say them out loud, she needs to listen to them, and then write them down.
Lotte's mother is in Holland, visiting grandma...
Just before we started the homework, I thought to let Lotte talk to her mother via Google-Chat-Video....
We're going to experiment with Lotte's FM equipment.
We have had it for a while, but since she didn't have problems in the classroom, we decided to wait a bit... That's.. until now. Time to experiment.
On my search for some explanations about the equipment I came across this webside..
Wonderful "happening" this morning..
Woke up late, and were listening to Lotte playing with Lego outside our bedroom. Lotte would have been up since 7:30, and she comes to us to have the batteries (rechargeable) put in her processors and have the pouches pinned on her clothes.
So... listening we were wondering if she had a friend with her, since she was engaged in role-play. There was definitely an alternate voice, and it sounded like one of her friends from down the road was with her.. So, Lotte's mum got up, dressed and had a look, only to find Lotte engaged in a wonderful play.. just by herself.
Many times, people will talk about how CI would sound completely different compared to normal hearing... and fine, who can argue with that, except that here's a girl that is doing two different characters, in two different voices, communicating in a make-believe conversation...
Pretty amazing, and far, far away from the simulations you can find on the net.
The mind is an amazing tool, and apparently is able to discriminate sounds very well... even with "only" 22 or 24 electrodes..
Well, Lotte finally had her first session with the new speech therapist.
For the most, this blog is for us to log how Lotte is doing. Keeping a record that will allow us to look back regarding when things happened. Another big part is sharing our experiences with other people. Parents that are in the same situation, or getting there, and other people that are interested. But documenting Lotte's progress is definitely an important motive for the blog.
of those things to document is Lotte using the telephone. It shows her understanding of other people's speech without the ability to read lips.
Lotte has been using the telephone for some time. (See here for some posts.) From her side it always went without problems... The other side probably had another idea of it. (And I have been there plenty of times.) Understanding her is difficult sometimes, but her pronunciation is improving all the time. Also, she is more and more capable of telling a story, or experience, in a coherent way.
The video below is one of those moments where she is very exited and wants to tell everything at the same time. She slows down later, and basically, when she is finished with her story, she puts the phone down.
Lotte is doing very well at school. She enjoys going there, staying there. Dropping her off does not require any more crying from her side. She happily goes in by herself.... "Bye-bye mummy.!" to indicate that she goes into the classroom. Progress!
Didn't we just make a post about words... and how important it is to all of us... ??
Well, The Real Group - a fantastic a-capella group made this song about it...
School started for Lotte with English homework already from the second week.
Kids with cochlear implants tend to have problems with their working memory, due to a lack of language interactions at an early age. That means that new words usually do not linger after hearing it once. It has to be repeated many times. I actually compare it with a computer hard disc that is not yet formatted.Well, formatting for Lotte has begun. Can't remember how many times we now have counted from 1 to 10 in English, but she thinks it's great fun, she understands what it means (probably because of her own understanding of two languages, that the same thing can have different names). Saying "three" is probably difficult for all children, but the lack of two front teeth really doesn't help! Otherwise she seems to pick it up, and remembers more quickly now (after a week) what the numbers are called.
Until now she thinks it is a great game, so we hope it will continue that way :-)
--- Mous ---
And to all readers out there.... just be patient.... Lotte will one day start writing to you all...
How cool would that be !!
--- Cloggy ---
Now, our little girl can't stop talking, but how was it in the "early years"...
Here two videos, both on the way to kindergarten....
Saying nothing in the first one... vocalising in the second...
It's good to have these video's because one forgets the phases - and when the child went through it... So, make regular videos.
And take the same "subject".. we video'd Lotte a couple of times singing a childrens' song. This way we could see the progress...
So, for those that just started the journey... be patience.. it WILL happen..
More and more research is done with regard to bi-lateral CI.... and they are confirming what we already suspected.. it does make a significant difference.
Like I said before... the only experience we have had with Unilateral CI is when one of the processors failed.... well, the display wasn't readable.... and we had to send it in.... Send 1 in, so Lotte was still able to hear. That's when we experienced the difference....
So, we cannot compare - really, but we do see how well she hears in noisy environment (and with 3 children in the house... it's noisy at times) how her speech develops etc.....
We felt that bi-lateral CI had a lot to do with it....
..... guess it has.
Description of the article is below..... just to make sure a link suddenly turns up "empty...."
.... enjoy!
So many milestones that will be reached when raising a child. And, even though we know they should appear, we never know when they come... and then, suddenly, after a long straight stretch of road they appear around the next corner... Suddenly, unexpected... but clearly visible...
With a child born deaf there are also milestones, some the same, some different. And with Lotte, born deaf, and implanted with bi-lateral CI in november 2004, the milestones might be the same as for a hearing child... they just are a bit further up the road... or did we just get on the road a bit later?
Anyway.... today we turned one of those corners...
Lotte was sitting at the table, waiting for dinner.. Suddenly, she said.... "Mammaaaa.... " (standard start of an important message :-) ... and continued "kniv - mes" (knife), "hus - huis" (house) etc... A switch has closed and she got the idea of two languages... And not only that... Different words is one thing, but she went further and did the same with the names of her siblings... the "Norwegian pronunciation - Dutch pronunciation"..
Something really clicked. And to repeat the slight change in pronunciation of the names of her brother and sister is another amazing feat.
Remember how people sometimes want to know how CI sounds... there are computer-simulations that will reproduce a sentence simulating 4, 8 or 12 "electrodes" and it sounds mechanical, distorted etc... I am always skeptical of these simulations because they ignore a major aspect... the brain.
And this shows it... The simulation of the same name with a different "dialect / language" would very likely produce the same "sound" when run through only 12 electrodes... The differences are small, but Lotte has no problem reproducing them... (Reminds me when she repeated the word "Aubergine" perfectly...)
Anyway... To all those out there that are inpatient... (like we still are), and who look at their children when they play with children their own age and compare them... (like we do), I would just like to say that with CI, we put our children on the same road as the hearing children. They will follow the same road, and they will have the same milestones as the rest... but still, they got on the road a little later... with a different vehicle.
And the milestones... they are not fixed. For every child - deaf or hearing - they are at different places... but they will all meet them.... and they will meet them all.
The difficult part is... being patient..
Sometimes the question arises... how do we raise Lotte - communication wise....
Oral, Sign, both....
perhaps this gives an idea :-)
Lotte explaining golf to her mom...
I know.... in a way nothing special about this.. a 6-year old telling mommy how to play golf.
......... and that's exactly what makes it special!
It makes me smile when research shows what people that experience bi-lateral CI them self, or with their child, already know.
Bi-lateral CI makes a huge difference compared to only 1.
I posted the article in here, as I don't know how long these articles remain available..
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Uttalelse
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Betydning
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Sies av Lotte
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Lotte
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Helikopter
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Blauw
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Blav
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Blå
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Meisje
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Jente
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Mijn
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Mein
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Min
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Boot
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Båt
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Auto
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Avtå
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Bil
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Sanne
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Jelle
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Hallo
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Hallå
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Eten
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Eeten
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Spise
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Elianne
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Boaz
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Youri
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Karin
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Boudewijn
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Bavdevein
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Feest
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Fest
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Pakjes
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Pakker
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Oma
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Opa
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Fietsen
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Fitsen
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Sykle
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X
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Slapen
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Sove
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Drinken
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Drikke
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Vliegtuig
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fligtaug
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Fly
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Trein
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Tog
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Zoeken
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Zoken
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Lete
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Snijden
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Sneiden
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Skjære
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Ijsje
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Eisje
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Is
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Bloem
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Blom
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Blomst
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Zwemmen
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Svemmen
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Svømme
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Even wachten!
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Vent litt!
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Ga je mee?
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Skal du være med?/ Skal vi gå?
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Pizza
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Uit je mond! / niet in je mond!
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Ta det ut av munnen / ikke i munnen!
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Schone broek
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Skifte bleie
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Dankjewel
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Takk
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X
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Alsjeblieft
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Værsåsnill
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Schommel
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Disse
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Buiten / binnen
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Bauten
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Ute / inne
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Schoenen
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Schonen
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Sko
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Schoenen aan/uit
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Ta på deg sko/ta av..
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Fout!
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Feil!
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In je stoel!
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Sett deg i stolen din!
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Poes
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Pos
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Pus
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X
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Boven
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Båfen
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Oppe
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Beneden
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Nede
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Paard
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Part
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Hest
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X
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Niet doen/mamma doen
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Ikke gjør det / mamma skal gjøre det
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Opruimen
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Rydde
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Terug
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Tilbake
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Aap
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Ap
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Apekatt
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Dame
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Water
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Vann
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Sokken
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Sokker
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(tanden) poetsen
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Pusse(tennene)
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Sier ”poetsen”
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Boek
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Bok
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Bok
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Zitten
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Sitte
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Beer
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Bjørn/bamse
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Klaar!
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Klar
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Ferdig!
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X
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Mooi!
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Fint/vakkert!
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X
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Ja
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Knippen
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Klippe
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Niet aankomen
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Ikke rør!
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Van
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Sin
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Daar
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Dar
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Der
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X
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Goed zo!
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Got så!
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Bra gjort!
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X
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Hatsjoe!
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X
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Ha det!
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X
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Doei!
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Ha det!
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X
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Vallen
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Falle ned
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Poep
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Pop
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Bæsj
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X
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Wc
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X
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Huilen
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Gråte
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Pakken
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Å hente / ta
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Horen
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Høre
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X!!!!!!
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Muis
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Maus
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Mus
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X
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Staan
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Stan
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Stå
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Kapot
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I stykker
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Pas op!
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Forsiktig!
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Voorzichtig!
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Forsiktig!
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Komijn
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Kånein
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Kanin
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X
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Kijken
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Kikke
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Neus
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Nøs
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Nese
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X
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Baby
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Beejbi
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